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Partner A says, "Leave me alone. I need some space."
If you follow the outer message of the words, you will most likely leave your partner alone, and in many cases you'll feel hurt and rejected because s/he doesn't want to be together in that moment. The outer personality and mind are listening and responding to each other in this case. We have all experienced similar situations where an unspoken message was actually driving the behavior. In this situation, nothing is resolved. No intimacy. In fact, one more hurt may easily occur to damage the relationship and create more distance.
When you establish the Divine connection within yourself FIRST, and then extend your heart to your partner, the needs of your ego are diminished because you feel fulfilled by the love within. This also allows the relationship to be held in a container of Divine, unconditional love. Your partner wants to know that you will extend your love no matter what. Through this you learn to listen deeply and you know what your partner's heart needs from a deeper perspective; you have more insight. Immediately, the situation and the relationship are infused with compassion, forgiveness, wisdom, guidance, tolerance, patience, strength, etc. In time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if not immediately, Partner A will respond to this new way of communicating and will melt into the love.
While it is helpful for both partners to have a connection with God, it is not necessary. The relationship will grow in intimacy even if only one partner knows how to make the spiritual connection.
Communication is a key to a good relationship. There are many books and workshops that model good communication techniques, and I have found these things to be helpful in my 35-year marriage. My husband and I have learned how to speak civilly, to listen to each other and how to fight fair. We developed a foundation of honesty and harmony that worked well. And yet, after a while it felt flat and we weren't really deepening.
However, when Partner B goes into remembrance, s/he may detect behind these words a deeper message saying, "I am afraid to show you who I really am. If I am alone, I don't risk being hurt. I really want you to accept me for who I am." Or,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], "I'm really stressed right now and overwhelmed with my workload, and I'm scared that if I make a connection with you, I'll fall even more behind schedule."
Partner B goes into remembrance and, through her connection with God, s/he extends her heart to her partner's heart and listens from that place. Still in remembrance, she asks God for guidance as to what the partner's heart needs. No words need to be spoken between the partners at this point. Whatever you hear is what you act upon. And watch how the other person reacts.
In this case Partner B may respond warmly by bringing the other a cup of tea as a gesture of caring without any demands or conditions. I myself have experienced this change of reaction to my partner, and have found that the cup of tea response melts his heart and dissolves his stress just enough to make a brief, but loving, connection. After that we both go our way grounded in more love and safety. When we feel seen, held and heard by our partner from a place of unconditional love and acceptance, we are safe to be authentic and honest, and genuine intimacy can develop.
Wise communication had gotten us only so far. In the past 7 years, since becoming students of Shadhiliyah Sufism, our relationship has evolved to a whole new level, one which we never read or heard about in any books or workshops. What has made the difference? It is our connection with God deep within our hearts. This is now the foundation of our marriage and the springboard of our communication.
The first step in developing heart-to-heart communication is to establish an authentic connection with the Divine in your heart. The Remembrance is a spiritual practice that opens your heart and connects you to the Divine, which gives a deep internal taste of peace, love and mercy. The Remembrance opens an infinite well of Divine Love that exists within the heart. (If you are unfamiliar with the Remembrance, attend a free teleclass on the Remembrance or go to our Reading Room on the website, and read the articles on Remembrance).
Is your beloved relationship honest, fulfilling and harmonious? Do you often have moments when deep love is flowing between your hearts? Do you wish for more depth, love and understanding?
While making that Divine connection, your heart flows out to your partner and holds him/her in love and acceptance, regardless of his/her state or emotion, even if it's anger. We call this "containment." This has an immediate effect on the other: usually s/he is surprised, perhaps even scared at first, because it's so new. Most of us as children weren't lovingly held by the hearts of our parents when we were very upset, angry or irritable. Usually being contained in this way is a new experience. After this, if s/he continues to feel held and accepted,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], his/her heart starts to melt and to long for the warmth and love that is flowing toward him/her. At this point,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the relationship drops to a new level, where love matters more than whatever was happening earlier.
Heart level communication leads to deep understanding, compassion and eventually unconditional love. It is the beginning stage of moving beyond the needs and desires of the ego and personality. It is the world of true giving, where the other's welfare matters more than your own, where you want for another at least what you want for yourself. Soul level communication takes the relationship even further toward the Divine,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but that is a topic for another article.
It is the Divine connection that allows you to hold your partner in unconditional love and helps you transcend the differences in the ego. The spiritual connection can help you move past differences and trouble spots. To move past all the challenges in relationship, a connection to a love that is bigger than the petty differences is essential, and the spiritual connection creates the Divine container that holds the relationship in unconditional love.
As a way of helping people to create loving and spiritual relationships with their beloveds,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we have outlined a seven-step process. To learn about all of these steps, we invite you to join a teleclass on this topic. Refer to the website for a schedule of these teleclasses.
Let's try it. Go ahead and place yourself in the situation above as Partner B, the giver. Now say the remembrance for a few minutes until you begin to feel the presence of love or peace. Good. Now, extend your heart to Partner A, and just feel/see/hear/perceive the person's heart. How does that heart feel to you? Does there seems to be a color, sound,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], texture, or emotion? What do you notice? Begin to say the Name of God into whatever you perceive. Now you can give what you feel is needed nonverbally by flowing it from your heart to the heart of the other. In a way this is a form of prayer.
Learning to communicate heart-to-heart does not happen over-night. This communication style involves deepening your heart and developing your insight through a Divine connection. The key is letting whatever you perceive be influenced and affected by the Divine reality. It takes time and practice to develop this spiritual connection and follow that guidance. It begins with learning to hold yourself in compassion, because whatever you give yourself is what you can give to others. As you set the commitment to develop this spiritual connection and extend it to others, you will be amazed at the beauty that begins to unfold. This level of communication will transform your relationships and bring you both into a world of richness, joy, and beautiful intimacy!
This article addresses one of the seven steps: heart-to-heart communication. The Sufis say, "Mind speaks to mind; heart speaks to heart; and soul speaks to soul." This means that where you are "coming from" inside determines what level you are able to reach and touch in another. If you communicate from your mind, you will reach the mind of your partner. Mind level communication is the most common mode in our culture,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and generally leads to differences of personality, attitude and opinion, not to love and harmony,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which is what we all are yearning for in our beloved relationships. Generally,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in this type of relationship, both partners feel unmet, misunderstood, and unfulfilled. Each one's needs and desires remain unheard and unsatisfied.
The second step in heart-to-heart communication builds on the first. It is developing the ability to understand what your partner is feeling and seeing behind the words that are spoken. In other words, learning to read the messages of the deeper heart.
Most squabbles in relationship stem from two people who need to be right, but are caught in differences and disagreement. Focusing on the differences is what keeps the relationship grounded in the ego and limits the relationship. In our teaching, you can either be right or be in the love,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but not both at the same time. When love supercedes and begins to meet the needs of the heart, the need to be right dissolves. This is a major turning point in any relationship.
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It is said that
• “The word ‘conversation’ will soon disappear from our lexicon. New means of engagement are taking over and redefining our lives,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];
• “Our hearts are desperately trying to reach out, but our minds are holding us back. We are hiding our true feelings under the mask of technology;
• The lack of conversation compromises out ability to self-reflect, which is the bed rock of development for human species; and
Whether it’s a sociologist’s speech on the caste system, a superstar’s article on being a Muslim in India, or TV debates that sound more like slanging matches; our inability to listen and talk to people to understand their point of view, stands out. Spiritual guru BK Shivani asks, “Whether on social media- platforms, TV or in real life, why are conversations only about winning or proving a point these days? By choosing to fight a corner, aren’t we saying to the world that we would rather be right than happy? Winning an argument isn’t winning, it is the ego’s way of trying to convince us that we are victorious because we have avoided defeat.”
Sherry Turkle, professor of the social studies of science and technology at the MIT, wrote in her latest book Alone “Together”,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], one of the main reasons people don’t converse anymore is that “a conversation takes place in real time and you can’t control what you are going to say. We get to edit, and that means we get to delete, and that means we get to retouch the face, the voice, the flesh, the body”.
Gregory Dion, a Canadian blogger, began a unique attempt to talk to people through his blog one hundred cups.com. His quest is to sit down for 100 separate cups of tea, with 100 complete strangers — all with the hope that he might learn a thing or two. He writes, “I’m Greg. I drink tea with strangers.
In essence,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], conversation is a formality these days. Even when friends meet to talk, their eyes are glued to their phones. I have heard people say, ‘make it quick, what do you have to say?”
Texting is preferred to talking. Emails have made our conversations crisp, cool and to the point. Whether it’s an official mail or a personal text, we can type and retype till we see a sentence that satisfies our ego. There is no room left for mistakes,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], little room left for reaction. Communication is clinical.
This discretion poses a huge crisis for the younger lot. Turkle feels the lack of conversation incapacitates us from knowing ourselves better. “What we understand by talking to other people,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with time, shapes our own thoughts and feelings. ”In other words, conversation with others helps us to know ourselves better.
Even when friends meet and talk,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], their eyes are glued to their phones. I have heard people say, ‘make it quick, what do you have to say?’ It’s almost like they are waiting for the ‘talk’ part to get over so they can relax,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], go back to texting and checking their Facebook statuses.” We live in a self-absorbed world. We love talking, arguing, debating in our own heads. The moment it becomes real, we lose control.
Is conversation a dying art? Texting is communication. The impersonal virtual space is best to argue and engage. If we don’t like someone’s views, we tune off But talking — or
Listening — is simply not an option anymore. Let us look at it briefly
Who wants to expose themselves and feel weak in front of others?
Media personality and columnist Pritish Nandy says, “The word ‘conversation’ will soon disappear from our lexicon. New means of engagement are taking over and redefining our lives. I speak to people through Twitter these days, when earlier I would have picked up the phone and talked to them. I speak by choice now, to people I actually want to. And I converse with even fewer.”
I call it the Goldilocks effect (ignoring information that’s too simple or too complex, focusing instead on situations that are just right), not too close, not too far, just right. But what might feel just right for a middle-aged executive can be a problem for an adolescent who needs to develop face-to-face relationships.”
Sociologist Shiv Visvanathan adds a new dimension to the issue.
“Indians have never been good with conversation. Traditionally, it’s older people who do the talking. Even in marriages till a few years ago, the husband did the talking and the wife listened. Where was the scope for a conversation?”
Then I tell you about it. I want to inspire people to be social again. We are social creatures by nature, are we not? So how did the world become so isolated — so full of ‘people who don’t want to talk to one another? I hope to encourage people to slow down. To share. To tell stories. To laugh. To inspire. Not just when it seems appropriate,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but all the time. With anyone. Any place. Any time.”
How TO TALK BETTER
• Listen more than you talk. The trick to a good conversation lies in lending a patient ear
• When in a group, don’t talk to just one person. Wait for your turn. The need to be heard loud kills conversations.
• Think before you speak, but not to the extent that you decide to keep your opinions to yourself because you think you know best.
• Staring at your cell phone while talking kills any scope of a half-decent conversation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
• Understand silence. They are just as important to develop conversation skills. Silence helps you gather your thoughts arid think and reflect better on any subject.
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Turkle explains why this strong need to control what comes out of our minds and mouths is making Gen Next wary of talking face to face. She says,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], ‘People can’t get enough of each other, but at the same time, they keep each other at a distance, in amounts they can control.
Script writer Sanjay Chauhan finds this almost- mute world- where best conversation happens within our own head — terrifying. “The silence of our world is deafening. Our hearts are desperately trying to reach out, but our minds are holding us back. We are hiding our true feelings under the mask of technology.”
But what caught my attention one fine day in the ladies compartment was that everyone — students, executives, housewives, even a 10-year-old girl accompanying her mother (including Yours Truly) — sat with earpieces on, plugged into their own world of music and private thoughts, consciously avoiding eye contact with anyone, lest a need should arise for small talk. Or worse, a conversation throughout the journey.
We all live in a ‘plugged-in’ world where communication is child’s play. But one of the biggest casualties of this connected world has been the art of conversation. We simply don’t have the patience to talk anymore. Or even listen to others. Says ad executive and scriptwriter Juhi Chaturvedi,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], “Conversation is a formality these days.
Talking or freely exchanging what one really feels de-stresses people and gives vent to suppressed feelings. A conversation also means two- or more individuals- expose their thoughts, words even heart, at least to a certain degree. But that is not acceptable to us anymore.
A dialogue between two people does not always amount to conversation. A dialogue can be crisp and to the point,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. A conversation is meant to include another person’s thoughts and views. It’s not always necessary for something more meaningful to come out of it.
HOW IMPORTANT IS COVERSATION?
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A conversation means getting in touch with a part of ourselves that scares us, the part we keep pushing back because we don’t want to deal with inconvenient truths in our ‘perfect’ worlds. An earplug, in such a scenario, comes in handy to blank out the noise called ‘talk’.
The daily commute from home to work in Metropolitan cities in local trains or buses is a fascinating experience. People say the railway is the biggest leveler in this city.
“So, the lack of conversation compromises our ability to self-reflect, which is the bedrock of development for the human species,” she says.
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First, I want to reference "The You" and what it is specifically and why is it so important. First "The You" is not the physical aspects such as the color of your hair, shape of your nose or body size but the unique spiritual energy we refer to it as your spirit, your soul or essence.
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So how do you bid goodbye to this unwanted companion? Simple, you recruit stress busters! Any task or activity that helps you relax or take your mind of from your present problems can help you lower your stress levels. Exercise, dancing, reading,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], watching TV,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], nurturing a hobby, listening to music, playing a sport, taking a long relaxing bath or pampering yourself with a spa massage, are all good stress busters.
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Increase your mind and body’s stress resistance: Meditation, clinical hypnosis and subliminal messages
Meditation, Hypnosis and Subliminal messages are some such techniques which can help you strengthen your mind’s immunity against stress.
In these Cds audio messages are either hidden behind music or are played in reverse. Often these messages are moved above the level of human hearing (above 20,000 Hz). Subliminal messages are believed to be extremely powerful but can only help you if you are willing to let them work for you.
In the former suggestion are given by a trained therapist after inducing a hypnotic state and in the latter suggestions are given through messages embedded in music,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], text or video.
Audio Cds are the most commonly used instruments for transmitting subliminal messages (for self help purposes).
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An effective way to deal with stress is to recruit the right stress busters. A good idea would be to follow a combination of two techniques,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], one which helps you get rid of built up stress and the other which helps you improve your resistance to stress.
While meditation involves getting in touch with your subconscious, hypnosis and subliminal messages involve giving suggestions to your subconscious which can help bring about a change in your perception and attitude towards life.
Stress in one of the most unpleasant companions to have, yet you’ll find it hanging around with almost everyone. Like a parasite stress feeds on our anxieties, fears and insecurities and aggravates them. Chronic stress can in fact wreck havoc in our lives. Stress is known to be the root cause of many psychological and physical diseases. Depression,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], heart attacks, arthritis,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], stomach ulcers, panic attacks and migraines; stress is one of the main culprits behind them all. This parasite also has the capability to lower the body’s immunity, thereby making it more susceptible to diseases.
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Unfortunately, it will require time for you to overcome a break up. The majority are likely to find that the pain tends to subside a little every day. Eventually, this pain will disappear completely.
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Here’s to healthy, strong and intimate relationships!
Relating with others is a delicate balancing act between having our own wants and needs fulfilled,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and making sacrifices on behalf of the other person. In other words: relationships are about give and take. The line where things grow blurry is in the everyday exchanges we have with those we care about.
It is in our most challenging relationship moments that we get to learn about love, acceptance and life. Keeping this in mind will help us survive those “frustrating moments” and overcome communication barriers that can cause problems between us and the important people in our lives.
Honor Talks™ can help to transform a complaint into the foundation to keep a relationship healthy. They can help us “clear the air” so that things don’t become bottled up and lead to resentment – which is the biggest relationship killer of all!
So, are you willing to have an Honor Talk with someone you love? You can do this. Give it a try!
* When is it okay to say what we really feel – even if it’s ‘not 100% good news?’
* When is it better to “spare” the other person from our true thoughts and feelings,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], because exposing them might cause pain?
* Is it ever right to ask or expect someone to do things differently? Or is it true what some say — that people never really change?
1. State your intention. Let the other person know WHY you feel the need to have this talk. Maybe it’s to clear up a misunderstanding, create intimacy, address feelings, or reach a compromise.
2. Express gratitude. Tell the other person all the things about them that you appreciate. This creates a sense of safety within the relationship,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and will keep the other person from becoming defensive during your conversation.
3. Speak your truth. This has to do with sharing how YOU feel instead of telling your partner what THEY do or don’t do. For instance, you might want to say something like “You never listen!” but instead you could communicate that as “I don’t always feel heard.”
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6. Speak compassionately. It can be very uncomfortable to be on the receiving end of an Honor Talk. Use words that express understanding, caring and acceptance: “I know how you feel.” “I see where you’re coming from.” “I didn’t realize how much that might hurt your feelings.”
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This part is very important: Take some time to process your feelings around your irritation before having an Honor Talk with someone. It’s not recommended to have an Honor Talk when your feelings are at a heightened state.
Honor Talks really aren’t about trying to change anyone. The majority of the time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we don’t actually need people to change who they are or what they do. What we truly want, deep down, is to be understood and feel a sense of belonging. Honor Talks™ help us to be seen and heard, and to establish understanding in the relationship.
Here is the Honor Talk™ format:
I designed a communication style called Honor Talks™ — used to express your feelings, communicate boundaries and create closeness based upon understanding and acceptance.
Sometimes behaviors will change as a result of an honor talk, yet it’s important to not walk into the talk with this expectation.
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People want to be consistent with their statements. If they act in a way that is incompatible with what they said, they will feel uneasy and might even feel that they’re not worthy to be trusted. Use this proven mind control technique to your advantage.
You can say, “If I remember correctly, you shared with me and the group that you want to resolve a serious problem with your wife. I know someone who can finally solve your problem. Would you like to give it a try?”
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If you still can't find out their problems, passions or wishes, you may ask questions such as:
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"What do you want most out of life?"
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"Is there anything I can do to help you get what you want?"
If you can, ask your “prospect” to write down what he says. You can do this in a “friendly” or “joking” manner; the result will remain the same.
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The problem with professor Hwang Tae-yeon's suggestion that we need not demand Kim Jong Il apologize for the Korean War or the bombing of that Korean Air jet is that his statements carry far more weight than the usual comments of a single individual. The Millennium Democratic Party's Institute for State Governing Strategy where Hwang is assistant director has been explained as a mere auxiliary research organ of the ruling MDP,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but in fact it is a party think tank under the direction control of the president of the party. At first he said his position remained unchanged and that he would not be resigning over that position, but the talk of the town is that when on Wednesday he resigned from his position anyway, this too was done after consulting Cheong Wa Dae.
What worries the hearts of many in the country watching the situation is these statements and ��convictions�� are being expressed by people in positions that directly or indirectly have considerable,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], everyday influence on the president. Hwang's case is no exception. He was a central member of the Ja jeong hoe,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a group that advised Kim Dae-jung when he was in the opposition,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and his long held role as a central theorist continued into the current government when he became active in the Presidential Commission on Policy Planning.
Many are unnerved because the since the inauguration of the ��Government of the People,�� there have been continued expression of similar opinions in regard to the North Korea coming from people associated with the ruling camp. The feeling of insecurity extends to President Kim's North Korea policy. The controversy over the Korean War is only the latest example. The social debate about the South's ��main enemy concept�� is also a textbook case of how this country is experiencing extreme forms of national division and confrontation.
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Have a happy Valentines Day!
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Are you hoping to make Valentines Day 2011 a special one for your sweetie? Is your loved one a little tired of getting the same old flowers and chocolates? Or are you still recovering from the hit your wallet took during the holiday shopping season, and in need of some budget-friendly – but still romantic – ideas? It can sometimes be a challenge thinking of new cost-effective ways to spoil your loved one,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so here are some of the best Valentines ideas to start you off:
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Add you own questions to the list to distill your relationship values.
You are not judging a potential partner as good or bad. You are evaluating your compatibility with people. I believe there is someone for everyone. What you may find unacceptable in someone, another may find lovely and extraordinary. If you are to get what is important to you in a relationship, you have to find people who have the capacity and the inclination to provide it. After all, do you really want to spend the rest of your life living with someone who cannot give you what you need?
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It is possible to be attracted to and have chemistry with lots of people. Everyone you're attracted to or have chemistry with should not be your relationship partner.
What will be important when I live with someone?
Real love, the type of love most people want in their lives, goes far deeper than attraction or chemistry. And it is worth the wait.
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I believe every single person needs to learn the skills of ignoring the immediate attraction and looking for something subtler,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], something that can grow and develop over time. One way to do this is learn to recognize people who have the same values as you. Start by asking yourself the following questions:
Unfortunately,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], partners who want to move into the relationship quickly tend to leave or cool off to the relationship quickly. If you end up in a relationship where there is immediate chemistry,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], where you are loved and adored immediately, most likely you will be left or ignored soon after.
What can't I live with?
What do I need in a relationship; what can't I live without?
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Once you come up with answers to the questions above,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you will have your own list of relationship values. Then,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], measure the people you are attracted to against your values. You will find the people with whom you feel instantaneous attraction will tend to not hold the same relationship values as you. On the other hand, you will find people with whom you have a more subtle attraction will be a better fit with your relationship values.
When you are only looking for someone to love you, those who respond quickly and with the most intensity will be most appealing. You will be looking for people who act as if they are in love with you almost immediately. You will tend to gravitate toward those with whom you have this "chemistry" and who want to move quickly into a relationship.
There are many single people looking for a relationship, but not necessarily finding the one. I hear it all the time in my practice. Single clients and friends tell me they have tried personal ads,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], dating services and the Internet. Some get their friends to set them up on blind dates. Many go to singles social activities and join singles clubs of all kinds. The lengths that singles go to in order to find a relationship could constitute a full time job. And yet,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], more often then not, they come up empty-handed. Sure, they may get some dates or end up in short-term relationships. But they don't usually find the lifetime relationship they've been seeking.
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Step 1: You have to be strong
This could however sound very difficult to accept now that you're heart trodden as well as feeling miserable with yourself over the breakup. On the other hand,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is essential you inspire yourself or perhaps get inspiration from several other sources because you need to be tough in an effort to reunite with your ex-boyfriend.
You might be here because of the fact your old boyfriend has dumped you now you are here pondering how on earth you might reconcile with your guy. Splitting up with your old boyfriend is normally a psychologically unpleasant encounter to pass through and which often leaves you being miserable with yourself,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
It can be very persuasive to wish to let him fully grasp simply how much you miss out on him, exactly how your world apparently have caved in suddenly and also that you need him to return into your life. However, this may only demonstrate to your ex that you are sad and needy - both which have the combined result of causing you to seem utterly unattractive before him.
Step 3: Become lively and social once again
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One thing which will help you gain back some energy will be familiarity with the reality that a large number of partners get together every day despite having experienced a horrible breakup and your trusting that yours will not end up an exception,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. All you need to try and do will be to positively fix your mind upon achieving this particular objective and smartly effecting the process of fixing the break-up with your guy.
To assist you to start the process of reversing the break-up with your ex guy, it is important to say that you need to be very careful concerning your actions. While acknowledging that, it's necessary you steer clear of acting instinctively because a lot of these behaviors immediately after a breakup are often improper. You have to be focused on your chosen method of winning your ex back again.
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What may have been just your HOLIDAY VILLAS IN SPAIN,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but don't all dreams have a way of coming true? Walt Disney, Christopher Columbus,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a royal palace, a state prison, an artillery college and a military academy all have one thing in common. The Alcazar of Segovia, a magnificent fortress, was first established during the reign of King Alfonso VIII when a wooden fortress,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], built on top of a possible Muslim fortress. Alfonso VIII and his wife Eleanor of Plantagenet moved into the fortress and made it their principal residence. They immediately commenced to construct the buildings that can be seen today.
The town of Segovia was once controlled by the Celts until they handed it over to the Romans,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], who immediately began work on irrigation along with other buildings. The Aqueduct that still stands in town is testament to the engineering ingenuity of the Romans,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but more of that in another article. It’s believed that when the Moors arrived,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], taking control of most of the Iberian Peninsula,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the town of Segovia was seemingly abandoned. Alfonso VI of Castile reconquered the lands south of Rio Duero and beyond Toledo around 1088,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], returning the area to Christian control. The town of Segovia restocked by Christians and Jews from the north. As the years passed,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the stone fortress of Alcazar became a favourite of many monarchs of Castile and an important fortress for the defence of the region.
The Alcazar was the fortress which saw the coronation of Queen Isabella I of Castile in 1474 and was also where she married Ferdinand II. As mentioned earlier Christopher Columbus was promised money by the queen before heading out on his discoveries in the same castle. In 1587 King Philip II,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], after marrying Anna of Austria, added the sharp slate spires similar to other castles in central Europe. The architect Franciso de Morar completed the gardens and the School of Honor around the same time. The Alcazar was later turned into a state prison when the court and parliament eventually moved to Madrid. In 1762 nearly two centuries later, King Charles III founded the Royal Artillery School here. One hundred years after that on 6th March 1862, a fire badly damaged the roofs and most of the framework. The fortress was slowly restored over the next 20 years back to its original state,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and King Alfonso XIII handed the Alcazar over to the Ministry of War to be used as a military college.
As a tourist looking over the fortress today it is easy to see how Walt Disney had seen the castle and took the idea of its towers for the design of his own Cinderella castle. The Alcazar is one of Spain's three most popular attractions and houses many works of art. Go and take a peek at someone's dream castle and see if your HOLIDAY VILLAS IN SPAIN is what you can turn into your fortress.
After a cave in, parts of the fortress had to be rebuilt so King Alfonso X of Castile set about the task. A large part of the reconstruction included the building of the Hall of Kings for use by Parliament. King John II during his reign in the 13th century had the East tower modified and enlarged to twice its original size. Architects gave it a gothic appearance and the tower is now known as Tower of John II. Most of the original building and design was done during the Middle Ages. The profile of the fortress resembles a ship from a distance,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], standing proud on top of the hill overlooking Segovia.
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A great many people see stage shows or movies and come to the conclusion that being hypnotized must include some profound and dramatic sensations. Perhaps they have seen a hypnosis stage show participant become so physically rigid that the hypnotist can put them between two chairs and stand on them with no apparent effort of discomfort to the participant. It certainly seems like it would have to include some very strange feelings.
As an interesting historical note, the term “hypnosis” was coined by James Braid, a Scottish researcher, in the 1830's. He based it on the name of the Greek god of sleep, because people in hypnosis look as though they are asleep. Their faces relax, and they tend to become very still for extended periods of time. Braid decided later that people in hypnosis were in a state closer to the normal waking state, and renamed the phenomenon “monoideaism”, a term which obviously never caught on.
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Someone in a light to medium trance will demonstrate the responses typically associated with hypnosis: following suggestions, and imagining more vividly than they usually do. Those kinds of experiences can open the person to making some amazing changes for the better,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], such as eliminating a fear, or a habit like smoking.
So, again what does it feel like to be hypnotized? As was mentioned above, the most common sensations reported in hypnosis are simply relaxation. It is also possible for someone to have some amazing experiences,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], like sensations of floating,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or of heaviness, or a variety of some other very pleasant feelings. This writer once got into hot water with someone who has had some very unusual experiences in hypnosis, because he wrote that hypnosis, in and of itself, has no special feelings. Because she had had such dramatic experiences,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], she thought that everyone experiences hypnosis that way. It was necessary to explain that someone may be hypnotized without odd or unusual feelings, although such feelings and experiences may spontaneously arise.
One way of thinking about going into hypnosis is that it is a learned skill. And, with practice, we can go into more and more profound states of hypnosis over time. Which brings up another interesting point, hypnosis is not an all or nothing experience. It is possible to be anywhere along a continuum from a very light hypnotic state,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], to the deepest of trances in which the person will develop anesthesia without any suggestions from the hypnotherapist. The deepest states of hypnosis can be very useful for someone who needs surgery, but who is allergic to chemical anesthesia. However, in such a deep state of hypnosis, the person will tend to be unresponsive to suggestions. So, when it comes to changing behaviors or shifting emotional responses,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the deepest states of hypnosis are all but useless.
But, as with many things in life, appearances can be deceiving. The most common sensation reported by hypnotized people is simple relaxation. Everyone has experienced the state of hypnosis thousands of times, at least unofficially. For example, have you ever been so engrossed in a book or movie that someone had to call your name several times to get your attention? Or,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], have you ever been driving and missed a turn because your mind was somewhere else? At those times,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], your brainwaves were identical to someone officially in hypnosis.
It is certainly possible for someone experiencing official hypnosis for the first few times not recognize that he or she is in trance. The sensations and mental alterations my be too subtle to recognize as different than everyday consciousness, although the hypnotist can see the telltale signs of trance: relaxation of the facial muscles, the slowed breathing, and complete stillness, or reduced and slowed movements of the body,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that indicate a light hypnotic state. The person may also have some preconceptions about “feeling hypnotized” that are mistaken,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which can cause him or her to reject the experience as hypnosis.
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That is why most hypnotherapists offer a brief introduction to hypnosis before beginning a first session. During that introduction the most common misconceptions about hypnosis are addressed. The introduction also includes an explanation and/or demonstration of what it "feels like" to be hypnotized. This allows the client to experience the full benefits of his or her session without needing to wonder, during,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or after the session, whether or not he or she was hypnotized.
Research has shown that the brainwaves of a hypnotized person are much closer to the waking state than sleep. It is common for a hypnotized person to be aware of their surroundings, and to be fully aware of what a hypnotist is saying to them. That is particularly true for the first few times someone goes into trance.
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